Dating Detours Episode 12 – Dating a Narcissist vs. Loving a Trans Man

In this raw and real episode, James opens up about moving from toxic relationships into a healthy, affirming partnership with a trans man. From caregiving after surgery to wearing rings and talking about future last names, James shares how communication, honesty, and boundaries are shaping this new chapter.

We dig into:

• Recognizing red flags early and breaking the cycle of self-sabotage

• Family support through the coming-out journey — from fear to full acceptance

• Caregiving, trust, and what it really means to “show up” in a relationship

• Lessons from past partners who love-bombed, cheated, and drained energy

• Big life goals: marriage, kids, and even launching a community coffee shop that blends travel, recovery, and creativity

This isn’t just a dating story — it’s about healing from trauma, building resilience, and setting a roadmap for love and life.

✨ Listen now if you’ve ever wondered how to turn heartbreak into growth, or how to navigate a relationship with honesty after past chaos.

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